I thought that my expression in this photo did a good job of summing up my attitude lately, so I made it my profile picture on fb. Here are the comments people made, and I just cannot understand how these people think it’s okay so say most of these things to me. They’re mocking me. I feel like a sideshow act. Like, yeah, my hair is big in this photo, but it’s always big, and also fuck you guys. Just because my hair is big that doesnt mean you can just say whatever fucking joke you think of.
My hair is not a fucking joke.
Is that one person calling my head a fucking duster? Are you kidding me? More backcomb - I can’t possibly imagine that she thinks I did this on purpose by backcombing….
My hair is SENTIENT? I think that comment is maybe supposed to be a compliment, but sentient means capable of knowledge and feelings, so… I feel even more insulted by that. Good intentions be damned. And then the girl who felt like it was ok to comment “HAHAHA oh wow” FUUUUUUUUUCK YOOUUUUUUUUUUU
If I fucking met you in the mall that day and my hair was down is that what you would say to me? "HAHAHA oh wow"?
Another person had commented “wow” but deleted it, so I don’t even know.
And then the last girl who says “I hate these days” has guess what - thin, wavy, super super thin hair that I’m sure can barely stay in a small hair elastic. Shut the fuck up.
I’m insulted, and embarassed. That’s my hair in it’s natural state. I liked my facial expression and wanted to share that, instead I’m left feeling mocked, humiliated, and frustrated that no one understands me. I’m angry, actually.
Note also, that 95% of these people who commented are just aquaintances who I’ve felt pressured to add on fb and who I don’t consider to be my friend in real life. I think it’s time for a serious fb purge.
Fucking assholes. No wonder I’m so self-conscious when I go out in public.
The uniqueness of my hair does not give you permission to say things about it, other than compliments. If I don’t like your shitty hair I don’t make a fucking joke about it. UGH
I think your hair is lovely and has personality.